Saturday, August 11, 2012

Dancing for Life

Affirmation:  I smile early, laugh daily, dance often.

In most cultures dance is an integral part of life.  Here in the United States one must make a greater effort to find the opportunity to dance.  Lately in the media there’s more about dance than in the last fifty years. There’s Dancing with the Stars and there’s So You Think You Can Dance.  Even the 2012 Olympic Gold Medal winner, Ryan Lochte is interested in dancing.  When he was interviewed on Good Morning America he said he would like the opportunity to compete on Dancing with the Stars.  And, too, Hope Solo, the 2012 goalie of the Gold Medal Olympic soccer team competed in 2011 on Dancing with the Stars.  And, the Olympic Gold Medalist Apolo Ohno speed skating champion, danced his way to the Mirror Ball Trophy.

Now too, we have all sorts of dance exercise.  The gym I go to, Rex Wellness of Cary has had a Latin dance class for many years and of course there’s aerobics which usually has some sort of upbeat tunes.  As of this writing, Zumba has become very popular.  And, most yoga classes have music in the background.

Yoga is not normally thought of as a form of dance exercise but I have always felt the vibrations and the rhythm of the music as I practiced the asanas.  When I trained at Kripalu Center for Yoga and Healing we had several wonderful classes that included live drum music. The Dance Yoga concept (formerly Dance Kinetics) was actually developed at Kripalu. At the Pink Ribbon Yoga Retreat Saturday evenings are celebrated with Yoga Dance.

TJ Martin, one of our gifted yoga teachers and a founding member of the retreat, has led us in Yoga Dance for the last eight years.  Of course, there are many different reactions to our dance event.  Some, like myself, can’t wait.

In The Artist’s Way, Julia Cameron asks you to imagine what you would like to do if you had several other lives.  It’s a fun exercise to see what you might be missing that you could actually do in this life.  I would have loved to be more actively involved in the world of dance.  There have been times in my life when the music led me to total abandonment.  I love going shopping with my granddaughter, Isabelle, because she’ll just smile if she sees me dancing about in the store, unlike my children, who I am sure were mortified by their mother’s lack of decorum. 

Many of the women who come to the retreat have been there before but everyone has had that initial introduction to our evening of Yoga Dance.   TJ does a marvelous job of explaining how the session is structured.  She explains that each of the songs are designed to open one of the seven chakras, energy centers of the body.  A yoga practice with or without dance can aid in opening the energy centers. The seven chakras begin at the base of the spine, the Root Chakra and run through the body to the top of the head, the Crown Chakra.  Envision a stream of energy or light, moving up through your body, flowing freely, keeping everything open and clean and soft.  Ancient yoga tradition teaches when the chakras are opened and aligned, we are balanced and in a state that encourages optimal health.

TJ brings some props too.  She brings feather boas and mesh scarves.  Some of the women bring coin skirts.  At our last retreat two of the returning ladies came to the evening session a little late.  They attempted to come in quietly so as to not disturb the group, the only issue was they had on their coin skirts and had added bell bracelets and anklets.  They also were in full flowing skirts and had silk flowers in their hair.  The fun had begun!

TJ begins our evening by inviting us to sit on our mats.  We move slowly at first.  One of the songs for the 1st chakra is Breathe.  Then she invites us to stand up and we move to songs like Feeling Good by Michael Buble. Then the energy begins to increase and for the 3rd chakra we get to dance to Shake Your Body and New Attitude for example.  The next set of songs include songs like We Are Family, Walk of Life, You Raise Me Up and Loka Samasta. Can you hear it?  Can you feel it?  Finally, we’re ready to wind down and we do that to songs like The Empty Sky.

Yoga dance is one of the healing modalities we offer for the retreat.  One year one of the participants did not seem to connect with anyone or anything that was being offered.  We would find her sitting in the living room watching TV while everyone else was chatting.  She wasn’t very interested in the art projects and her favorite yoga pose was savasana.  And, then during Yoga Dance we reached the songs for the 3rd chakra.    I happened to be directly across from her when the music began and it was one of the most astonishing things I have ever seen.  A grin came to her face, she lit up from within and she began to dance with total abandonment.  She didn’t stop until we were ready to lie down.  Her enthusiasm and love of music took her to a place during the retreat that nothing else was able to accomplish.  From then on, she was an integral part of the group.  People took the time to tell her how much they enjoyed watching her and dancing with her.

There have also been women who refused to dance.  I try not to judge but I wasn’t always successful.  But if they return, sooner or later (sometimes years later) something happens and I will look up and there they will be moving and smiling, and many times laughing.  It is so very joyful.  It is so very healing.

I believe we can enhance our health by sometimes tricking our bodies to think we are feeling good.  I once read a story about a man who played the music for silent films.  He was asked if it was hard to play music that went with the feelings of the scenes.  He answered he didn’t concern himself with that.  The music he chose created the emotions the viewers experienced.

If you’re sad and you don’t want to be, smile.  If you’re feeling blue and you don’t want to be, laugh.  And, if you want to fully embrace life and go a little crazy, turn on the music and dance.

“Dance as though no one is watching you,

Love as though you have never been hurt before,

Sing as though no one can hear you,

Live as though heaven is on earth.”  Dr. William W. Purkey






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